Life Gets in the Way

Softness.
Softness.

This post represents my response to today’s Blogging101 brief – “Be Inspired by the Neighbours”. We had to expand on a comment that we made on someone’s blog yesterday. This has been a fun experience so far, lots of new blogs to read and new bloggers to meet.

I was just reading back through the comments that I have made over the last couple of days and discovered that twice I said “life gets in the way”, and have had similar wistful moments in other comments. The first time was on Andy’s post. By the way, please take a look at Andy’s work if you haven’t already, he has such a unique way of viewing the world, but also a unique way of describing what he sees and photographs. I’m happy to be diving in to Andy’s world every day. Andy always posts some prose (is it ok if I call it prose Andy?) with his photographs and manages to make it fit perfectly.

Andy tells us that he is going to experiment with more writing soon and I’m looking forward to that because it’s something that I want to start up again too. When I was younger, (much younger) I wanted to be an author, I wrote so many stories and I loved escaping into other worlds. But “life gets in the way”. I also wanted to teach, so I took the practical route instead. Of course, I’m not a teacher now in the traditional sense, but I do teach other scientists how to use robots, so it’s close, right?!?

Yesterday, the lovely Seeking Samantha very kindly called out two blogs that appealed to her and one of them was mine! The other was another blog, called A Beautiful Disaster, where Asewalson told us about a high school test which proclaimed (twice) that she was best suited to being a Judge! She rebelled against the system 🙂  In my comment to her, I told the story of how I wanted to be an author but “life gets in the way”.

The other place where this came up was Nat’s fun blog at Science, Books and Silly Things. We discussed how important reading is and how I want to read more but don’t have time, because “life gets in the way”. However, Nat’s right “Life would be sad without books” – don’t you agree?

It’s tricky, isn’t it? There are so many things that demand our time – family, work, study, pets, commuting, bills, blogs 😉 social media, TV, many other things. It’s important to take a beat every now and again and consider what we really want to do and be. I want to let my creative side take over and interact with the world, see everything and try new things.

Ok. Deep breath. Let’s all dive in 🙂

x desleyjane

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31 Comments Add yours

  1. Mara Eastern says:

    You are one of the best blogging neighbours I know, if not the very best! You have a very vivid and energetic way of writing that I like a lot.

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    1. desleyjane says:

      Oh Mara – that’s possibly the nicest thing anyone has said to me. I am touched (I literally have tears in my eyes). Thank you love. I am so glad to have found my little Twitter group here 😉

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      1. Mara Eastern says:

        I’m deeply humbled by your words. You are indeed a most affectionate and supportive person, as fellow bloggers commenting here after me noticed and appreciated too! So here’s to blogging bonding 😀

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        1. desleyjane says:

          ☺️ I’m all for blogging bonding!

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    2. I agree with you there. 🙂
      She’s one of my favorites. ^.^

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      1. desleyjane says:

        Oh Nat! Thank you so much. What an emotional evening I’m having here…

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  2. tinyexpats says:

    Agree, life does get in the way, but you know how sometimes it seems that things go the wrong way, you have to adapt and adjust, only to realise in the end that they worked out even better than you were imagining? What would’ve happened if something didn’t happen.. nobody knows. But I wouldn’t change any negative experience or interference I had, because, who knows, I wouldn’t have had what I have now.

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    1. desleyjane says:

      Yes! You are absolutely right. I chose a job that, to be fair, I loved for many years but it became so soul-sucking in the end. However, in those last two years I met someone through work, who will be a best friend for life, so I don’t begrudge to for an instant! Who knows what’s around the corner 😉

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  3. Desley, this post is written beautifully. Thank you. Your words are touching and crossed every corner of my latest thoughts. This apparently trivial phrase – “Life gets in the way” is a harsh reminder of the need to live with purpose and to follow our passions.
    I’m happy to see you following yours, and in turn being grateful for the opportunity and privilege to appreciate the beauty of your thoughts and photos.
    xxx
    PS 1: Did I miss you saying you made this one with our common Olympus friend? Awesome.
    PS 2: Autocorrector insists you are Wesley…LOL We settled for Desley…no worries.

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    1. desleyjane says:

      You said that so well – live your life with purpose. I absolutely agree. Thank you for your kind words, as usual I appreciate them very much.
      The cloud picture was taken with my iPhone6, it’s from one of my last trips last year. I haven’t been away again yet!
      You’ve reminded me, I need to add some details on technique to be rehab post and link it!
      X

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    2. desleyjane says:

      Oh I forgot to say – Wesley!! That’s funny. Americans always pronounce my name like Wesley (Dess-lee). It’s actually pronounced Dez-lee. I had to spell it like that for Siri to get it right 😃😃😃

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      1. Lol. So funny! My siri is out of control! She insists you’re Wesley my dear Dez-lee! Xxx

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        1. desleyjane says:

          No! You must stop her! Tell her she’s wrong LOL.

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          1. After the last ios update my siri is bi-polar. Seriously. I fired her and she comes back. The phone function freezes the whole time. I can use any function except for calling…handy, isn’t it? I thought calling was its primary objective… It’s not anymore a smartphone. Lol

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            1. desleyjane says:

              Oh no! A trip to the Apple Store should fix her. She’s sick and needs a doc-errrr-genius!

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              1. I’ll bring her to the Apple rehab…poor Siri is clearly missing some carbagge-bytes since the last update!

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                  1. Thanks! And now off to bed! Have a superb day, lovely! Xxx

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                    1. desleyjane says:

                      Thank you. Sleep well xox.

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  4. Lovely post. Yes, “Life gets in the way,” and it can be frustrating at times because you feel as if you’ve gotten lost in the tides of life. It’s in those moments where I have to be still and know that there is a greater plan at work and it is well.

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    1. desleyjane says:

      Absolutely – lost in the tides – I like that way of saying that.

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  5. Andy Townend says:

    I am very touched by your reference to me in this moving post, thank you…yes life gets in the way but what I have also learned is that we so often get in the way of life, sometimes we need to just let life happen, good or bad…just flow and see…very happy to have met you here!

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    1. desleyjane says:

      Very true words Andy. I am just thankful that it’s moving in a lovely pattern right now x.

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      1. Andy Townend says:

        That’s good to hear!

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  6. Loretta says:

    You have a great way with words, I peeked at Andy’s page too, definitely food for thought 🙂

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    1. desleyjane says:

      Oh thank you so much!!
      Andy is always giving me something to think about 😀

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